Weird thoughts of a bi-sexual

09 May

Yea… sexual content ahead – not explicit


If you are bi or a lesbian you might understand that.
I really want to do it with a woman… Yea…
Actually I have never had the chance to do it with a woman and then I got married to a man.
Well I had the chance a few times but I was too shy to … well… do it…
But a woman once touched my arm very nicely! πŸ™‚ I will not forget that moment because she was cute and she actually wanted more, just like me… you know… *lol I am even too shy to type this stuff out on my own blog*

I have talked about it to my husband, well mentioned it, that I would like to do it with a woman. But there wasn’t much of a reaction to it. I just don’t wanna go ahead and do it because that would be cheating.
We have talked about a threesome with a woman a few times. But so far, nothing.
(btw, yea, I am having straight sex. I just miss the lesbian part…)

What can I do in this situation apart from watching lesbian porn? It’s not the real thing, not even close. And a hooker is no option, sorry…




Any advice? It’s weird…


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6 responses to “Weird thoughts of a bi-sexual

  1. mik1999

    May 9, 2014 at 2:45 am

    We (my wife and I) have been in exactly your spot. For us, what worked was (i) integrating it initially into our fantasy life, (ii) making it clear that her interest in women was purely a sexual and a playful thing and not a threat to our relationship and (iii) taking small steps (the first thing we did was go to a strip club together — were we live, things are quite liberal and there are clubs that are very open and comfortable for couples. Then, once we learned to treat it as a fun thing, we moved from there

    • Leela

      May 15, 2014 at 8:56 pm

      Wow thank you mik! πŸ™‚ I thought exactly that way too. Going to a strip club. Watching porn etc. And he trusts me very much and knows that he is my partner and a woman would be “just” for the pleasure.
      The only thing I still worry about is the fact that we both want to actually like the third person… not sure how to approach that part

      • mik1999

        May 15, 2014 at 9:15 pm

        We felt the exact same way (about wanting to like the person). We go really lucky the first time we went to a strip club. The woman who offered us a private danse was awesome and loved the fact that we were a couple and that it was my wife’s first time. The dances were super sexy and she ended up hanging out w us chatting for about an hour after. Very fun

        We have had experiences since that were more mixed. We have gone to strip clubs a few times. Sometimes the experience is awesome and sometimes it is clear it’s just a job (which is totally fair but not what we are looking for).

        I guess the other option is swinging and swing clubs. We know his scene a bit and in our experience the people are very fun and friendly but most people play as couples

  2. anonymous dyke

    May 9, 2014 at 6:33 am

    Tough situation. If you feel that your husband is, indeed, the person you want to spend your life with, the one you love, then your options are limited to what you and he both feel comfortable with. I am a lesbian who was married to a man for many years. I loved him, but was not in love with him in the way that I am now with my wife. But that’s me, everyone is different and finding one’s path is not always obvious or easy. Best of luck!

    • Leela

      May 15, 2014 at 8:59 pm

      Thanks for the comment anonymous dyke
      Yes, I am actually in love with him πŸ™‚ Very much. That is why I am not forcing him or pressuring him to do anything. We talk about it from time to time and I can see his progress when it comes to it. In the beginning it was “oh no, that’s too weird for me” and by now it is more him being a bit unsure about himself but finding the idea pretty nice. I hope we are getting there πŸ˜‰

  3. lilmynx67l

    May 9, 2014 at 9:14 am

    ABSOLUTELY!!! Woman are sensual….


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